People think they need to curse, scream, shout, etc to get their point across. You can have civil conversations and debates without offending another person and still be on good terms with someone. People who think and act differently from you are not your enemies, they just think and act differently than you, nothing more and nothing less. We don't need to separate ourselves into groups or categories or ideologies. We're people with different perspectives that don't need to agree with each other, but can learn to live together and treat each other with respect.