I'm 19 (f) and never want to have a kids. My mom tells I should think about the benefits of having children to raise and how they'll be there to help when they get older. I get disgusted with the idea of having children just to benefit me. Like wtf thanks for having me mom just so you can call me to help you out whenever you need it. I don't want the responsibility and I want to live my life the way I want.