We're all different people with different experiences and I get that, but the stories I read on here and other apps just makes me feel exhausted. I'm sorry for those people that have had a history of shit in their lives, and I hope all of you have the best life ahead of you, but holy guacamole keep some of that to yourself. It's hard enough dealing with my own problems and then having to deal and listen to everyone else's. I don't have the energy for it. Women taking about making their boyfriend wait months to touch or even hug them them because of emotional and physical trauma from the past that they still haven't dealt with. See a shrink or something and get it together. Men complaining about being alone and not having a gf, look in the mirror or record yourself some day and watch it for an hour and see if you'd date you. We're all just one big bundle of problems, but we can't expect everyone else to deal with them for us. Get it together people.