I feel like an asshole for just not speaking up and saying it just wasn't hitting it right, but I keep thinking if I tell him the truth he's going to hate me. Damned if I do damned if I don't kind of scenario and it sucks. And God forbid I bring up using a vibrator like a bullet, since then that means he feels like it's not enough.

(I actually have a vibrator I hide from him in my purse and use when he's not home)