There are youtube videos you can watch, books you can read, and free online info about how to be a good speaker and analyze things better objectively. There's so many posts about people being and feeling alone. No one wants to talk to them. No one listens or approaches them. Don't get caught in the loop. Study yourself and adapt to different ways of thinking and your circumstances will change. How you stand, how you dress, how you smell, how you hold yourself, your manners, your approach...it all matters. Focus on the little things, adapt yourself to be what you want, and what you want to happen, will happen.