I hate the fact that my gf has been with more dudes then a porn star from what she tells me, and then tells me she's changed and she loves me
For reference I'm 28 and my gf is 30. We've been together for 3 years and we were pretty open with each other to our past experiences. I've been with 3 girls in a serious relationship that involved sex, and maybe a handful of dates that lead to a kiss if I was lucky and nothing more.
She's told me she's probably been with 50+ men since during her college days she had friends that liked to party and they had quite the reputation for being "fun". She says that all behind her, but 50+!!! I never showed that it affects me, but sweet damn thats a lot of dick before mine. I try not to judge and whenever it comes up in my head I remind myself that she hasn't been that way at all with me. She doesn't cheat and I genuinely feel like she loves me and I love her. Just need to vent this out in case someone else had the same thing happen to them. Try to keep your head and don't let people's past affect their present and future with you, especially if you're in love.
She's told me she's probably been with 50+ men since during her college days she had friends that liked to party and they had quite the reputation for being "fun". She says that all behind her, but 50+!!! I never showed that it affects me, but sweet damn thats a lot of dick before mine. I try not to judge and whenever it comes up in my head I remind myself that she hasn't been that way at all with me. She doesn't cheat and I genuinely feel like she loves me and I love her. Just need to vent this out in case someone else had the same thing happen to them. Try to keep your head and don't let people's past affect their present and future with you, especially if you're in love.