I want to surprise my husband with a 3 some before getting married as a surprise but I want the same thing done for me but I don't think he'll go for it. I'm pretty open to the idea since (unknown to him I actually had a 3 some back in college with another girl and I really liked it but I may bring it up once I hint at the idea). I don't think he'll be into letting me be with another man since he gets jealous and has some insecurity issues. I really want to try it at least once but I have my doubts it'll ever happen. I guess a girl can dream.