My boyfriend is angry that I use a vibrator and says he should be all I need and feels like he's not enough. I try to explain to him that he shouldn't feel threatened by it and women use it since it helps us cum even better during sex, but he shuts down and acts defensive. He's 24 and I get that he has insecurities, but I'm not about to give up on what makes me feel pleasure because you can't grow up and get over the fact that women use vibrators. Yes they feel amazing, no we won't replace you for it since nothing compares to hot intimate sex with someone you trust, and you just need to suck it up buttercup and grow up. Instead of being insecure about it, be confident and open to it and you might just be surprised about other things we'd try that would blow your mind. A tip for men out there...be confident with yourself and who you are and don't count on women or anything else to validate you. Too many "men" out here putting the weight of their confidence on women and blaming us because we don't make you feel secure and like a man. YOU need to find that shit out by yourself, and we'll be there to support you. Women have our own things and insecurities to worry about too.