I hate it when people you know and trust for years who you have an extremely close relationship with just act nice to make someone feel better rather than being honest. Just tell me the way things are and don't act like a twat about it. SPEAK YOUR MIND! Maybe some people are just bad at being full of shit and lieing, but I prefer hurtful brutal honesty from my close friends over being lied to. I respect you more for being direct and to the point and open about how you feel.