We've been dating for 4 months now and my gf started a new job in medical billing and she doesn't text, call, or check in anymore. I've texted her to see how she's feeling and if she wants to hang out, and I've gotten "I'm just tired right now..." and she'll call me back when she's not busy. No calls, no texts, I mean wtf can you be doing after work to not even send a message or during a lunch break. I know she works normal hours and maybe some overtime but come on. It's like she doesn't even want to try. Not sure if this is going to last at this point but I hate it when someone can't just be straightforward and honest about it.