I'm the youngest of 3 brothers and my oldest brother has 2 kids, about 6 and 8 years old right now and his life is hectic to say the least. Anytime I call to check in just catch up it's like he's fighting a constant battle raising them. I don't want children if this is what's its like. I'm not a person who handles stress well so I think I'm just better off not having kids of my own. Only issue now is hoping I meet someone that feels the same.