I felt relieved when my father in law passed away. He was 88, and my wife and I were taking care of him. It was a constant struggle watching over him, bathroom trips, bathing. I don't want to get old and I hope something takes me out so no one feels this way about me later. My wife would hate me if I told her this but a piece of me wonders if she feels the same. One thing I learned though after 23 yeats of marriage, better to keep my mouth shut