I have too many friends who think theyll find husbands who will pay for everything and give them this lavish lifestyle, or theyll be stay at home moms and just depend on their husbands. Please dont be that way and get a job and your own income so you dont have to depend on anyone. What happens if you break up or he drops dead? Hope you can find a new man and youre not too old, or have kids, or no career experience. Please please please make sure you can be independent and be strong